You know—I’ve been working 24 years of my life so far. And you know what I’ve noticed? I’ve noticed that people for the most part are great people. They love their families, their community, and their country, but sometimes, just sometimes, they can become a—pain. They’re aggravated, and I don’t think they know why. I can relate, because at some point in my life I was walking around aggravated—totally pissed-off at my circumstances. Until I found out that it wasn’t the circumstances, it was me!. I was just plain bored! And my aggravation was just my subconscious trying to get it through my “thick”—skull. It was trying to give me a swift kick in the backside so I would wake up! Begging me to wake up out my sedentary lifestyle and search for true meaning, meaning that resonates with my spirit, my soul. I guess that makes me one of the “lucky” ones—well not really lucky, but it is a blessing to be able to know why you are feeling aggravated. Pardon the cliché: ‘ Knowing is half the battle”. Now that I know, I can start trying to do something about it. This is where all the hard work and determination comes into play. I sure feel sorry for the person who knows their ailment but sit and does nothing about it. They’ll probably complain about something or someone, but they won’t take a close look at themselves. Just a thought…
Assessment
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since you’re knowing more so now, what was the swift kick? What was the transformation? what’s your true meaning? If you’re comfortable sharing that is.
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It’s quite simple. Life doesn’t owe me anything! I get what I am not just what I want.It’s a harsh lesson to learn but quite obvious if you’re awake. Like most, I was asleep. Transformation is an ongoing process.
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This is an interesting post. I feel you are right in saying people complain, but do little to rectify their own situation. Life is what you make it. I’ve been around for 66 years and have experienced my ups and downs, but I have always chalked it up to something learned. Thank you for following me.
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Thank you.
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If you want to cure the a problem I guess you start first by identifying and acknowledging the problem,if not, well nothing happens. So glad you did it. And glad you stumbled upon my crazy little blog.
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What a great, correct and apt distinction 🙂
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Thank you.. I wish that everyone will assess themselves and work from the love within. Im in Love with peace.
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You are perfect right. Mostly it depends on our attitude the way we are going through. Otherwise the first stress is in our brain. Just try to understand from where is coming and once did, half problem is done. The other half is the action. Trying to be a positive one. Depends again in how we understand the situation.
Deep topic. And great to share it. 🙂
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Perfect description.! Thanks for the blog follow too 🙂
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You couldn’t have put it more right! Thank you for the follow and keep on changing your life 🙂 After being a complainer myself, having received a “kick in the butt” I finally awoke too.
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Thank you… It’s a blessing that we are awake…
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Good points to go along with the excellent graphic. See the hall pass in the previous post made me think of this … the purpose of assessment is to figure out what to do next – and in education, that doesn’t mean the next chapter.
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My point exactly. Thank you for stopping in…
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Hello Frank, I couldn’t pass your name and not say hello.
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Sarah,
Good morning to you … and I hope your staying at Club MD is going well.
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Hi and thanks for stopping by my blog. I fully agree with you, we get out of life what we put in, if we do nothing we can’t expect very much really.
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Now that’s what they should be teaching in school. Thank you!
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It’s easy to complain about life, and challenging for some to make a change. I believe a major problem is…not only identifying it, but having to courage to change. Good post.
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That is so true. It takes real courage to go after what you really want despite setbacks, and opposition on the sideline..
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The rewards are awesome, they outweigh the struggles.
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I came to see who was following me
A curiosity to know about ANANSI2050
Having come I am impressed with what I see
and for following me I am thankful to thee.
🙂 Good post will come back for more.
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Thank you. I like the poem..😁
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very true words, life’s varieties and the pressures of everyday can be so overwhelming you totally lose sight of what your focus should be, and if you don’t jerk yourself up, you”l get stuck in the cliche and boredom, even much worse, unfulfilment. thanks a lot! what a wake up call
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Thank you… It’s natural and easy to blame, but it takes courage to assess yourself and hold yourself accountable…
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yes, that’s so right
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I can’t agree more.Experience, expressed at its best.One must have enough brain maturity and a little bit of philosophical orientation-then life can be Heaven.Thanks for your article .We are the cause for our own headaches. Thanks for sharing.
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That is so true. Thanks for the compliment…😃
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I came here because you visited me. I like what I have read so far. Thanks for the follow . I hope you come back for more. I also look forward to reading more from you. I am just getting OUT OF A RUT. I still need all the help I can get.
🙂
HUgs Sarah
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Thank you soo much. Hopefully I can continue to help out..😁
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I LOVE THE ILLUSTRATION you chose! We all need a wake up call sometimes.
-Dasha
http://windycitywardrobe.com
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Thank you… It all seems soo simple…
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Thank you for visiting my blog and following. In that way I have discovered yet another interesting blog too. Great thoughts.
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Thank you….
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You are right there is no point sitting down and complain when you can do something about your circumstances.
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Absolutely we must start somewhere. Thanks for the comment…
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This is more than a thought; it is an accurate assessment. The first step is recognizing one’s life is “out of balance.” The next step is making a cognitive decision to do something about it. You don’t have to succeed entirely with your first attempt. But you do have to make an attempt to create a new baseline to work from. Action steps require diligence and persistence. Sometimes it is difficult to kick yourself in the posterior repeatedly. As success is achieved, the struggles become easier to deal with. It sounds like you are moving in a great direction. Good luck!
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Wow! Thank you so much for the advice. Its just the confirmation I need to keep moving…
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Boredom can be hiding in agitation about your life, certainly true sometimes. Although sometimes you do just get dumped upon. Choice is whether to face the fear of moving on.
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That’s very true. Thank you
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Thanks for your ‘follow’ of my blog and, in so doing, introducing me to yours. Much here to chew on—I know I shall be back to enjoy!
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Thank you so much..
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Wise words! Very wise words!
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Thank you….
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True…Transformation requires knowing what keeps us from becoming the best version of ourselves…Good Luck !!
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That is true. Thank you..
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Really like your ‘cartoon’. Sitting a lot can be deadly…have done a lot of that in my life and do a lot less now.
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That’s is so true. Thanks for the comment…
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Great cartoon of the difference between Assessment and Evaluation. I have been using these words interchangeably all these years until now! 🙂
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Thanks, I thought it was funny yet interesting…
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I think I would agree with this.
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Very true and frank:)
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Thank you..
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The problem about having a fractured pshcology based on an inherent instability is that whatever solutions you find inevitable become corrupted, before becoming another layer of the problem
And the only adaptable source of resolution is found within another human, which is hard to find when you’re naturally wired to be anti-social
There’s a joke in there somewhere!
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That is soo true… We are wired to be selfish..thanks for the comment
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Thank you for this post, this is a great reminder that we should try every time. 🙂
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You’re welcome, and thank you…
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This is some pretty unique insight. 🙂
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This cartoon reminds me of so many aspects of my working years; where managers and supervisors often felt humiliation and ridicule were the best motivators, instead of encouragement and praise. But I’ve always known that people will get what’s coming to them – whether good or bad. It may not happen right away, but it gets there. If anything, though, my tenure in corporate America has given me plenty of fodder for a work-related series I’m working on right now for my blog. That’s how I’ve often coped with the stresses of the world, work-related or not. I’d write about things in my journal. Now I have my blog. Of course, names are changed to protect myself.
Thanks for the inspiration!
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You’re welcome. My blog is my outlet as well. Thanks again…
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”Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves, like … Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.”— Rainer Maria Rilke
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That’s so awesome. It’s funny how the right message comes along when you really need it. Thank you so much.
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Such good post but do you think most people on earth assess what they have or do or rather evaluate what they think or do? 🙂 Really good
And thank you very much for following my blog! 🙂
❤ D
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I would like to think everyone assesses themselves from time to time..I’m not too sure though. Thank you
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What about u?
Have a good one!
Thanks.
D
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Reblogged this on Dipyaman Roy and commented:
Wonderful!
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We’re all guilty of complaining but I think some people make an occupation of it! I agree that life is definitely what you make it and it’s too short to be moaning about the lack of bags at the supermarket! Thanks for stopping by my blog and following. 🙂
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Thank you. And I admit I’m guilty too and I’m getting better.
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You are so right!
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Love your writing! And thanks for checking out my blog!
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Thank you
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Reblogged this on The Journey.
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I totally agree with your message, and like you, at one point in my life I blamed my circumstances and then I grew up and realized I had to do something about me if I wanted to change to happen in my life. Great message here.
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Its tough at first but once you realize who your greatest hindrance is you slowly make the necessary changes. Thank you..
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🙂 So True!
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Thank you…
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